015 RMP: Can You Really Have A Thriving Music Career & Strong Family Life?


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Today, I have percussion instructor, Jose Aponte. José is a senior lecturer at the University of North Texas in the Percussion and Jazz Studies departments, where he teaches drumset and Latin percussion. In addition to his private lesson studio work, José is the director of UNT’s Afro-Cuban Ensemble, Brazilian Ensemble, and Latin Jazz Lab Band.


In this episode, you’ll learn: 

  • Challenge your comfort zone
  • Practice your weaknesses first
  • Serve the clients, not your ego
  • Prioritize Your Time
  • Self Care
  • Take time to rest
  • Learn to say “No”
  • Ask for help

Also, Jose’s Pro Tips:

  • Arrive early
  • Dress Appropriately
  • Prepare in advance


  • Find balance in the good and the bad
  • Be honest with yourself
  • Be present in your art and your family
  • Communicate openly with your spouse

Finally, learn to:

  • take care of your craft
    • Take the 66 Day Practice Habit Challenge
  • avoid the artist’s trap

For more info:

José has performed with such artists as Giovanni Hidalgo, Emil Richards, Carlos Guedes, Poncho Sanchez, Batacumbele, Gino Vanelli, Brian Bromberg, Lyle Mays, Andy Narell, David Rudder, Relator, Fred Hamilton, Dan Haerle, Tracy Thornton, Lian Teague, Airto Moreira, and Michael Spiro.

Aponte is an active member of the Dallas/Fort Worth musical scene as a freelance performer and studio musician with groups such as Fifo and Citizens of the World Colombian Jazz Group, Fifo and his Afro Bacanos Salsa Band, John Murphy Jazz Trio, singer/songwriter Tania Cordobes, David Lee Schloss’s Caravan, Kalimbe World Jazz Group, Island Boogie Caribbean Band, Justin Cash Jazz Fusion Trio, Tito Charneco’s Diaspora Jazz Group and his own projects (José Aponte and Caribe Club Latin Jazz Quintet, Batuque Brazilian Jazz Trio, and Brasuka Brazilian Jazz Group).

José is an artist/clinician for Pearl drums/percussion, Evans drum heads, Pro-Mark sticks and Sabian cymbals.

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Rip Phelan